Hey y’all, I’m absolutely sure you’re sick of this, but as I was starting to finally do job apps, I was diagnosed with covid. I hate to keep ebegging for money, but I can’t consciously go out and endanger people. If you could help me limp through November and December to get my electricity bills, phone bills, and medical bills taken care of I’ll be so thankful.
gay men having crushes on straight men isnt predatory its fucking normal?????? crushes dont give a shit about whether or not the person is straight or not its just kinda a bummer to happen like ur crush being taken or whatever, its not predatory dont be fucking weird
same goes for lesbians btw
Same also goes for trans people having crushes on cis people
So I don’t want to add this in my big homeless post as this is more immediate.
I have a really bad ear infection as a result of the sudden extreme drop in temperature, the common rainy days, most hats being donated/borrowed, and the probable bug problem.
My ear is swollen, it hurts immensely, it’s leaking fluid, and my hearing is stuffed up.
I am also in immediate need of shelter and a warm shower tonight for extremely personal/health reasons related to the above.
I need to fund about $150+ ASAP
If you can help:
PayPal: viva.la.revolution.now@gmail.com
Cash: $C4KSP
((If someone wants to book a night somewhere outright that also works and if you would like to know why it is needed/more info please dm))
love is not just a soft place but also the place where you have to look at yourself and ask, “can I be better? can I be kinder? can I give more? can I listen more? can I grow? can I support?”
“When you’re a trans woman you are made to walk this very fine line, where if you act feminine you are accused of being a parody and if you act masculine, it is seen as a sign of your true male identity. And if you act sweet and demure, you’re accused of reinforcing patriarchal ideas of female passivity, but if you stand up for your own rights and make your voice heard, then you are dismissed as wielding male privilege and entitlement. We trans women are made to teeter on this tightrope, not because we are transsexuals, but because we are women. This is the same double bind that forces teenage girls to negotiate their way between virgin and whore, that forces female politicians and business women to be agressive without being seen as a bitch, and to be feminine enough not to emasculate their alpha male colleagues, without being so girly as to undermine their own authority.”
— Julia Serano, Excluded: Making Feminist and Queer Movements More Inclusive, p 28-9 (via goth-gallus)
basically if you’re white and you rely on poc educating you or “calling out” your behavior because you can’t fucking sort out/identify racism yourself maybe learn how to be a better ally
don’t misconstrue this as me saying like “don’t listen to poc” but i feel like at some point after seeing us talk about racism so much you should be able to identify it yourself without us stepping in. you shouldn’t be waiting for the newest Racism Callout Post to decide “oh this person/behavior is racist i need to step away from them/it”.
not to mention the fact that when we circle posts about popular youtubers like, idk, jenna marbles, jchlatt and other mcyts, etc. being fucking racist, ignoring those posts as white people is just fucking vile lol
