Today I was talking to my friend about the way this whole poly thing seems to work.
It made me realize something interesting.
I like James on a scale from 1 to James.
I like Marti on a scale from 1 to Marti.
These scales are not comparable, there is no way to translate a value on one scale to a value on the other; in fact my feelings for each are utterly unique to each person.
I know this was the right choice- I just feel so unbelievably happy, so full of love.
This… is actually a really cool way of describing what being poly is like for me, too. :)