Comcast, stop eating my connection. >:|

Yeah, I’m pretty much not gonna be able to catch up on Tumblr today. Sorry, all. If something needs my attention, feel free to shoot me an ask!


I need to eat today. Would you please encourage me to eat today?


I miss swimming.



look if you unironically say ‘money can’t buy happiness’ then either you’ve never faced a real financial struggle or you’ve achieved enlightenment, because goddamn does financial security feel an awful lot like happiness when it’s something you’re not used to

(via princessgorgon)


Some days, depression produces an endless guilt spiral (“I have to do this… oh, but I can’t! But I have to! But I can’t! But I have to! But I can’t! But…”). Trying to force yourself doesn’t work, and neither does just sitting there hoping that you’ll get out of your mental rut. You’re just… stuck. It’s not fun.

My therapist tells me that, right now, I need to concentrate on accomplishing one thing a day. Even if that thing is just, “I went outside for a bit,” or, “I got some writing done.” That way, I’ll build up some accomplishments and that will, hopefully, give me mental strength and motivation to do more. She’s trying to move me away from that guilt spiral I get into. It’s hard work — very hard — but I’m trying.

Maybe, eventually, I’ll be able to create my own light in this tunnel. That’s the hope, anyway.


kiriamaya asked: ♥ ♥ ♥



Guys follow this girl PLEASE she is one of the most intelligent, funny, educated people around for feminist issues, especially trans and disabled related, she is phenomenal and wow MY DAY IS MADE.

D’awww you’re a sweetie. :D <3 This made my day, so thank you!

(And I actually do self-ID as transfeminist now, so I should go update my FAQ, haha)

"When trans women are told that they need to stop being assertive and strong because it is a sign of male privilege - invariably by “feminists” who, of course, encourage cis women to be assertive and strong - that’s transmisogyny.

When trans women are pressured into being silent, rarely offering their opinion, and refusing leadership roles for fear of being seen as male or accused of having male privilege, that’s transmisogyny.

When trans women are afraid to analyze or discuss the role of male privilege in their life because of the way accusations of male privilege have been used as weapons to silence, shame, and misgender trans women, that’s transmisogyny.

When trans women do analyze and discuss the role of male privilege in their lives and come to different conclusions than the dominant cis feminist perspective and are told it is because they simply don’t understand privilege or are ignorant of feminism, that’s transmisogyny."

— Tobi Hill-Meyer, What Transmisogyny Looks Like  (via bisexual-community)

(Source: metapianycist, via landoffrostandblogs)

"I met my wife at a Star Trek convention. She was study abroad from France and spoke little English, and I didn’t know a lick of French. So, for the first few months of our relationship, we communicated by speaking Klingon."

Hear more tales of nerdery in this week’s Pwn Up! (via dorkly)

Okay I’m not even a Star Trek fan but that’s beautiful.

(via tchy)


(via jennifergearing)

I am a Star Trek fan (and one who knows little smidgens of Klingon), and yes. This is delightful.

(via therotund)

"If you are 35 or younger - and quite often, older - the advice of the old economy does not apply to you. You live in the post-employment economy, where corporations have decided not to pay people. Profits are still high. The money is still there. But not for you. You will work without a raise, benefits, or job security. Survival is now a laudable aspiration."

Quoted from Sarah Kendzior’s “Surviving the Post-Employment Economy

“In the United States, nine percent of computer science majors are unemployed, and 14.7 percent of those who hold degrees in information systems have no job. Graduates with degrees in STEM - science, technology, engineering and medicine - are facing record joblessness, with unemployment at more than twice pre-recession levels. The job market for law degree holders continues to erode, with only 55 percent of 2011 law graduates in full-time jobs. Even in the military, that behemoth of the national budget, positions are being eliminated or becoming contingent due to the sequester.

It is not skills or majors that are being devalued. It is people.”

Her work is frank, speaking of a reality I hope that will never be mine. At the same time, it gives me a strange comfort to know that I am not alone.

(via sextus—empiricus)

(via blood-and-vitriol)


Anonymous asked: do you even care about grammar


grammar and spelling are really important to me. I actually study grammar and spelling in typing styles. It’s not important to me as “WOW THEY SPELLED A WORD WRONG” or “WOW THEY USED THE WRONG YOUR” but rather I look for repeating themes in typing styles and can link that to a grapholect–or an internet dialect/register [typing styles unique to certain parts of the internet]

For instance a common grapholect is the doge meme speak shit.

"Much grammar, so spelling, very grapholect. wow"

thats a very specific and deliberate way of typing. There is a correct way to type in this grapholect and an incorrect way to type in this grapholect, and I think that’s fucking cool.

How about we look at language rapidly evolving–due to constant need to type and communicate via text, and stop clinging to classist/ableist/racist/sexist/etc. old white guy’s language wet dream.