I think this every day, haha. Being on spiro is… interesting.

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Isn’t it weird how women are “vain” for daring to think we’re cute even when some guy doesn’t find us attractive

But men aren’t “vain” for thinking their opinion on the appearance of a woman they don’t even know should matter?

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saying “you are a burden on society” is just such a weird framing of priorities

It’s like saying “wow, think how much better gas mileage your car would get if you weren’t sitting in it” or “think how dry that umbrella would be if you weren’t holding it in between you and the rainstorm”.

the things we create? they’re for us. they are meant to carry us. they are meant to protect us. we are meant to hold them up to keep us dry. 

Society is so much more burdened by the people who say that and prevent the creation of humane accommodation for people with disabilities than the actual disabilities.

Not just on a “those people are assholes” level, but on an actual fiscal level. We are wasting money and time and resources because if we provided better and proper services for people it is cheaper to keep people healthy (to whatever level is possible for a given individual) than it is to pay for emergency services once someone is having a crisis because they were unable to access proper care and resources.

Also when my friends with disabilities and chronic illnesses AREN’T fighting insurance to get coverage of the treatments they need, we’re all happier and they have the energy to do some cool shit. (Or they just feel better than they would otherwise, but that’s better for us all than the alternative.)

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halp what is spoon

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it’s like a subversion of the bechdel test :D


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When women talk to other women about how hot women are :D


By the way, this is the second consecutive week I’ve been to church. I know it doesn’t sound like much, but if you’ve been following me, you know what a struggle it’s been just to get out of the house. You also know that “go to church regularly” is my first step towards one day becoming a trans lady minister. :D So. Yeah. Thankful for this.


There is a lesbian wedding happening at my church next week.

…I may have gone “AWWWWWWWWWWW” really loud in the fellowship hall when I heard about it.


And now I’m down from three partners to just one partner. (Well, and also one potential-sort-of, don’t-quite-know-where-it’s-going-at-the-moment relationship.)

So, yeah, breakup sadness :(

I mean, it’s probably for the best, as I think I can only handle one relationship these days anyway ‘cause, y’know, spoons. Just. Yeah.